Girls Today
Okay this is to all females out there. I really do not know what is up with us these days. We fought for rights to be treated equal and what have we done with those rights women around the word spent theirs lives getting us. Sure was can have pretty much any job we wanted, but is that all there is to equality? Same pay and same job opportunities are not all what rights are about. How ever we, ourselves have brought an even more injustice apon ourselves. By the way we act and dress.
Now what do I mean by the way we act and dress. Ever look at your wodrobe and think how sexy you look? AND HOPE TO CATCH A GUYS ATTENTION!! Well that is bringing our selfworth down. It is okay to try to look beautiful but seriously seeing you thong underwear or the color or design on your bar, if you wear one, is not trying to look beautiful. You are allowing guys to think you are candy a toy to be played with. Are we just toys or are we human beings that deserve respect just like guys. It is not the guys fault they think this, it is our own. Hard to hear but it is the truth. Guy see and act on what they see. They are different that us and have a total different wiring scheme than females. Personally I do not want a guy to think he can just get into my pants then walk away and use me any time he wants. I am only going to give myself to one man and that will be my husband on my wedding night. I deserve the best and so do all of you. If you act like a slut and dress like one that is how they will treat you. Fact of life.
Ever you ever wondered why when a girl sleeps around with a lot of guys she is called a slut, when if a guy has slept with a lot of girls is held is high esteem by his peers. When is reality he is no better than all those girls he has slept with. He is a man whore, plain and simple. He is stealing from you and your future husband. So why do we let them degrade us still? Seriously what is up with that! It makes me angry to see girls try to keep a guy so she gives him her body. When in fact that is all he wants and once he gets it, what is left for him to hold on to. What is to stop him from tossing you aside like garbage? I hope you can see the very HUGE point I am making. Maybe we won some rights but in the end we lost ourselves. We have lost the truth worth of being a lady and what that entales. I can only shake my head. Seriously this needs to change.
Now how can we, well first I would say is dress modestly. Do not try to get a guys attention. The right one will come along and see the real beauty and you know what he is the catch. He is there to respect you, not use you ( hopefully). You can tell if a guy is just trying to use you if he says " I am a guy, I cant help my urges" or "If you really love me you will do this". Okay seriously, if they love us they will treat us with DIGNITY and RESPECT! The way we deserve. Now giving Oral is the same thing as sex and many other activities that involve any place that should be covered by a modest bathing suit. We are allowing them to use us and abuse us. We are playing on how they are wired, so we get stung or a major electrical burn...so to speak.
Now about how girls treat other girls. We should be allies, but in most cases eachother's WORST ENEMIES!! I can only roll my eyes and some females behavoir. We should be supporting one another, not tearing eachother down. Besides what is up with the whole writing on the bathroom stale thing? That is plain retarded. Like so and so is a slut, or so and so has warts...maybe we should be telling eachother to stay away from guys that just want someone for a "booty call". Like so many Rebels I have heard talking about how they got this girl and how they got this girl. And what they did, and again yepee! What men they are. We act so suprised when we act this way and we find ourselves not better than a sex slave. Common girls, are we not better than this?
For once can we not band together? Can we not dress modestly? Just because the movie stars dress that way, does not mean it is right. There are all these sayings today about how we need to be original and be ourselves. Yet we let hollywood still influence us. Yay for being ourselves. I just wish we could respect ourselves and just well I do not know. Not allow others to dicate to us how we should dress if we want this guy. That guy will only want your body, not the whole you.
So now I want to leave you with all of this and think about it. Guys are awesome, we are different and should be equal. But we are doing this to ourselves. What else can we ask for. We tell people how to treat us by the way we behave and dress. So do not act suprised the next time you let someone use you and they do not stay. We brought this apon ourselves. So what is up with Girls today?
Now what do I mean by the way we act and dress. Ever look at your wodrobe and think how sexy you look? AND HOPE TO CATCH A GUYS ATTENTION!! Well that is bringing our selfworth down. It is okay to try to look beautiful but seriously seeing you thong underwear or the color or design on your bar, if you wear one, is not trying to look beautiful. You are allowing guys to think you are candy a toy to be played with. Are we just toys or are we human beings that deserve respect just like guys. It is not the guys fault they think this, it is our own. Hard to hear but it is the truth. Guy see and act on what they see. They are different that us and have a total different wiring scheme than females. Personally I do not want a guy to think he can just get into my pants then walk away and use me any time he wants. I am only going to give myself to one man and that will be my husband on my wedding night. I deserve the best and so do all of you. If you act like a slut and dress like one that is how they will treat you. Fact of life.
Ever you ever wondered why when a girl sleeps around with a lot of guys she is called a slut, when if a guy has slept with a lot of girls is held is high esteem by his peers. When is reality he is no better than all those girls he has slept with. He is a man whore, plain and simple. He is stealing from you and your future husband. So why do we let them degrade us still? Seriously what is up with that! It makes me angry to see girls try to keep a guy so she gives him her body. When in fact that is all he wants and once he gets it, what is left for him to hold on to. What is to stop him from tossing you aside like garbage? I hope you can see the very HUGE point I am making. Maybe we won some rights but in the end we lost ourselves. We have lost the truth worth of being a lady and what that entales. I can only shake my head. Seriously this needs to change.
Now how can we, well first I would say is dress modestly. Do not try to get a guys attention. The right one will come along and see the real beauty and you know what he is the catch. He is there to respect you, not use you ( hopefully). You can tell if a guy is just trying to use you if he says " I am a guy, I cant help my urges" or "If you really love me you will do this". Okay seriously, if they love us they will treat us with DIGNITY and RESPECT! The way we deserve. Now giving Oral is the same thing as sex and many other activities that involve any place that should be covered by a modest bathing suit. We are allowing them to use us and abuse us. We are playing on how they are wired, so we get stung or a major electrical burn...so to speak.
Now about how girls treat other girls. We should be allies, but in most cases eachother's WORST ENEMIES!! I can only roll my eyes and some females behavoir. We should be supporting one another, not tearing eachother down. Besides what is up with the whole writing on the bathroom stale thing? That is plain retarded. Like so and so is a slut, or so and so has warts...maybe we should be telling eachother to stay away from guys that just want someone for a "booty call". Like so many Rebels I have heard talking about how they got this girl and how they got this girl. And what they did, and again yepee! What men they are. We act so suprised when we act this way and we find ourselves not better than a sex slave. Common girls, are we not better than this?
For once can we not band together? Can we not dress modestly? Just because the movie stars dress that way, does not mean it is right. There are all these sayings today about how we need to be original and be ourselves. Yet we let hollywood still influence us. Yay for being ourselves. I just wish we could respect ourselves and just well I do not know. Not allow others to dicate to us how we should dress if we want this guy. That guy will only want your body, not the whole you.
So now I want to leave you with all of this and think about it. Guys are awesome, we are different and should be equal. But we are doing this to ourselves. What else can we ask for. We tell people how to treat us by the way we behave and dress. So do not act suprised the next time you let someone use you and they do not stay. We brought this apon ourselves. So what is up with Girls today?
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