Love
Part two
So I wrote about my feelings of love the last time; still I will wonder if I should delete it or not. So this part two of my series I will write on how society has twisted love into several different meanings. It is a shame how everything is called love and for the most part it isn't what I would call love. This four letter word used to be used wisely and now is used at a drop of a hat. This once precious meaning is no longer around.
So many people say they are in love with a certain person and well the truth of the matter is they are just lusting after the person. The "love" the body or a physical feature of a person and get what they want and will move onto the next person if they will not give them what they want. Sacrifice is a form of love, but come on, when is enough enough? Now if you think I am just talking about men I am not. Females are following this trend also. Has love been reduced to an animal instinct? I really hope not, or this race known as Humans will cease to exist. I believe we are superior to animals like the elephant and cat. We can think for ourselves and we can speak and reason.
If there was real love out there, there wouldn't be a fifty percent divorce rate. Loving the person means working together. Since has marriage been easy!? Get to know the person, don't base your relationship on the physical features of the other person. I will let you know a secret... If your marriage is based on looks it won't last. Eventually everyone looks the same, wrinkly and old. They smell and it will be their personality that will make you still love them. If you married them for their personality. If he is attractive but has the worst personality there is no way I would date them. I don't want to live with someone who will make my life miserable. Looks are a major bonus. Don't think I am like this phyco who is like mad at the world. I notice when God made someone attractive. I am human like the rest of us. I have just based my feelings on something deeper than the skin.
Looking at television today I see all the worng messages about love. I know I don't need diamonds to know if a person loves me. Though diamonds are really nice. We are told we are unique and special and then we turn around and are hit over the head with totally opposing messages. Makes me wonder what is going on in the world. Fortunatly I know of a love that some only wish to find. And truth is it is a lot easier to get than most think. It is free and perfect! How awesome is that? Until next time...What more is there to say?

1 Comments:
At February 9, 2005 11:36 PM,
Blackbird said…
hey hun!
recently, i've been thinking alot about the very same topic that you've decided to write about in your little 'series'...strange how our thoughts collide, even when we don't notice it!
and no, i don't think you should delete these blogs, because you never know who's out there clicking 'next blog', and that person may need your advice and wisdom.
and your view on love is really interesting, and so full of truths at the same time. it was once said that diamonds are a girls' best friend...but i think the person who said it was a little self-involved. the only real validation that a person would need, if it was really true love, is just the knowledge that the other person loves them unconditionally. that would be even better than diamonds, in my opinion!
unconditional love is something that everyone's looking for, and that's why the divorce rate is so high...because you rarely find it. and when you think you have it, you grab ahold of it too fast.
if you should find it, keep it, because who knows when or if it may cross your path in life again. and hopefully the other person feels the same way too.
that would pretty much be the extent of my opinion on the subject at hand, but i may comment again...who knows! until then, i am, as always...
ME!
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